Want the Skinny on Office Party Etiquette? Watch Episode 10
Let’s talk office parties.
We’ve all been to an office party where someone gets too drunk, says something wildly inappropriate about another co-worker or worse, belts out a tone-deaf rendition of “My Heart Will Go On” before taking a swan dive off the boss’s desk.
What is it about free booze and hanging out with co-workers outside of office hours that makes us drop our guard and forget all workplace etiquette? At Habitly we’re still not sure but we’ve come up with some tips in our latest episode that might help you get through the evening unscathed (and with your dignity intact). Oh yeah, and still employed.
Behind Episode 10
This episode is based on a few memorable experiences of our own, and it’s bolstered by this article on Business Insider that describes numerous accounts of office parties gone awry. Some stories are hilarious - “My boss made out with a mop” - but many describe scenarios in which the participants seem to have forgotten that our colleagues deserve our best behaviors at office parties, regardless of the circumstances. The embarrassment that is sure to result from going overboard at an office party can be avoided if employees stick to a few basic rules that won’t inhibit fun but are guaranteed to keep crushing mortification from rearing its ugly head in the morning.
The Key Takeaway
Office parties are supposed to be fun. But what they’re not meant to be is a repeat of your college days. They are a chance for new people to make a good impression and for current employees to maintain and improve relationships. So be on your best behavior. That means showing up with a light heart and a great attitude, ready to enjoy yourself. Each time you find yourself engaged in a conversation with a colleague, take the time to really listen. Remember you’re all on the same team. And not only will they appreciate your interest, but also feel seen and heard for who they are outside the office.
Avoid drinking too much alcohol and remember to drink plenty of water. It’s not true that any of us are more fun when we’ve had too much to drink. The fact is, it’s impossible to be present for your friends and colleagues if you’re inebriated.
Lastly, be grateful for the opportunity to socialize with your coworkers. It’s an opportunity for everyone to get to know each other, and it’s not in the budget for every company. You’re blessed to be part of a company that has the means to host a celebration, and that you have a job where you can attend an event specifically for the purpose of enjoying yourself and your colleagues.